08 March 2007

~ Momentz in life ~

There are times in our lives when one of these 9 statements applies.

My favouritez are 4, 7and 9!! ^_^
Whatz urs?

1. There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real! So cherish them while they are with you.

2. When the door of happiness closes, another opens; but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one, which has been opened for us.

3. Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. FIND THE ONE THAT MAKES YOUR HEART SMILE.

4. Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do. [..i like this ^_^]

5. May you have enough HAPPINESS to make you sweet, enough TRIALS to make you strong, enough SORROW to keep you human and enough HOPE to make you happy.

6. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

7. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches. [..i like this ^_^]

8. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you were smiling. Live your life so that at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you are crying.

9. Don't count the years-count the memories...........Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take; but by the moments that took our breath away! [..i like this ^_^]

*sounds familiar?? copied from somewhere else.... *

=it's boring when doing revision... so i'm here again to lepak=

~hope you like it~

07 March 2007

+ Sadness and Happiness +

Chinese new year has ended and class resumed finally... Monday was the 1st day of my class after the break of chinese new year...Unluckily it's a day filled with disappointment and sadness... I was so upset and cant truely smile from the deep of my heart... never ever be happier until now... why the sadness can last for so long while the happiness can be faded so fast and easily?! >?<

Anyway, I'm here to share some sweet and nice stuff with u guys and i think those happy moments might help to cheer me up... [ i hope so ]...

Last week should be the study week but i have spent it on a trip with 4 of my friends...That's the 2nd trip for 5 of us and it's much more nicer compared to the previous trip which carried out in December 2006. The same bunch of friends... the same beach... the same accommodation... the same room... the same transport... the same time..

Same as the previous, two of my friends and I met at midvalley and we took KTM to reach our destination, Seremban. Then the other 2 friends were be there to meet us and it comes to the begining of our journey... the 3days and 2night trip... Seremban, a state which is quite near to my house and it seem to be no place to visit there... but when we gather with friends who are nice to be, wherever will be the great and nice place to be... so, it's not a matter to be there and it's kinda excited when we asked to join the trip .

~28.2.2007, 2.25am : th3 ShadoW Of K3N, Alic3 & Stephani3 at the B3acH~

~ 28.2.2007, 2.31am : th3 coconut which plucked by the guys ~

The above are those we did in the midnight after the day we arrived... I really cant believed those coconuts were plucked by them... at first, i thought what they suggested is just a joke...but at the end.....they did it!!! Bravo for guys... And one of my friends titled it as " 5 fellow "stealing" coconut in midnight at the beach " hahah... i'm laughing now when i think back of that night...It's really fun and crazy....Don't you think that's crazy?!

After the walk at the beach, we went back to the sweet sweet home which i like so much... Honestly, it's much more sweeter and comfortable than my home. The 1st thing we do after we reached the sweet sweet home was tasting the coconut which brought back from the beach.... erm... the coconut juice is not too sweet and its freshness=100%.... nice.

After the midnight, the next destination of our trip is the hutan lipur.... We crossed the rocks, the grass and the small mountain and finally we reached the 1st station of the mountain...When we looked onto the signboard, we got to know that there're around 20 stations for the mountain and we just managed to reach the 1st .....

~ nice pose?! ~~ The on3 i like the most , everyone was smiled ~

~ We're in the HousE!!! ( the atap house ) ~

~ This is the famous food of seremban, the toasted crab " 芙蓉烧蟹 " ~

~ time for tong shui 糖水...( dessert ) ~

The trip was quite short but I really enjoyed it and appreciated the moment we gathered... the time we know each other is not more than 2 years but i can truely find out the friendship between us.... When I gathered with this bunch of friends, I was so relaxed.... I can easily mixed up with them and just be what I want to be without any hiding or pretence . I know the time we can spend together is not much.... We met each other last year and we're going to end our studies life by the end of this year ( if possible ).... huh , it's so fast.... Anyway i'm looking for the next trip ...... and hope the friendship between us can be continue after the separation....

The holiday has ended and class resumed... I know that everything is going to be tough... a lot of tests... a lots of assignments...a lots of preparations....and...and i'm getting nervous day by day.... as the result i got was getting worst and i don't know what was exactly happened on me... It's really... ... how cant i concentrate fully in everthing i do?! how can i give up so easily when i come across difficulties?! why am i so emotional?! why am i so stubborn?! ............. the more i think of the more i hate my own.... i just know what i can do now is to recover as soon as possible, learn from the previous mistake, work harder and try to do the best in everything i do, especially my studies.....真的真的要加油了。。。不可再掉以轻心了,虽然失败了,但还是得振作。。。换个策略或方法,也许会更好吧。。。。加油加油!!!

*** May all the happiness & luck around me throughout the year of 2007 ***

26 February 2007

CNY~~~ Photo BlogginG


~ 1st Day of CNY ~


* the Reunion after 9 years *


~ 24.02.2007 DonG zEn Temple 東禪寺~

* 24.02.2007 Jln bkt Bintang @stro 超乐50大派对 *


~25.02.2007 Gathering with primary classmates & teacher ~

* 26.02.2007 the Big Day of Hokkien *






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怎么了 又怎么了
每一次的每一次 一次又一次
为何还是那样呢

为什么 为什么
一次又一次的努力
一次又一次的痊愈
为何最终还是功亏一篑呢

到底该怎么办....

怎么办... 怎么办... 怎么办...

难道...
飞机场, 这个名词的含义是些什么呢? 每一次飞机的起落升降, 带出一段段动人心弦的美丽故事; 飞机场里见尽一幕幕悲欢离合、人生起伏...

从机场里出发, 像开始了人生另一个旅途... 机场里, 有人们因分离而落下的泪水; 也有人们因相聚而留下的欢笑声...

上星期五, 最要好的朋友离开本土到国外深造了... 原有‘爱哭鬼’之称的我, 最怕最怕的莫过于这种场合了... 一个人独自驾着车往机场的方向驶去, 脑海中出现了许多的回忆... 虽然心中有些不舍, 但却为他而感到开心; 因为出国深造并不是人人可获, 而它甚至是有些人梦寐以求及遥不可及的事...

舍不得及悲伤的场合难免会令人深感心疼而落泪... 然而, 这一次的我没有... 我没有掉泪... 我做到了!!! 我开始学着往自己所许下的诺言走去了... 无论多难熬多辛苦, 我相信我一定可以完全的克服并获得胜利... 然而, 看着朋友的背影渐渐离去... 眼眶中难免还是会有点泪光, 但我始终还是没让它往下流... 因为我知道, 我们相聚的那一刻也即将到来了... 祝福你!!!


Ni, 一个认识了将近六年的朋友.... 我俩最初是同班同学... 但我们并不熟, 因为当时的我们都有着自己交友的圈子... 认识彼此的一年后, 我们才渐渐地成为朋友而到如今的好朋友... 印象中, 她就是一个非常随性且开朗的女生. 当我们同在一起时, 欢笑声一定不会停止... 她就像个开心果吧! :) 曾几何时, 我也希望自己能够像她一样, 把欢乐带给四周的人... 我想... 她留给大家最经典的回忆一定是那一些一次又一次令人开怀大笑的过去... 每当我们再次说起往事时, 这些往事就像刚出炉的新闻般受欢迎, 再多都不会腻, 仍然逗得大家开怀大笑...

在朋友当中, 她也属那一位最常在空闲时联络我跟我谈天的人... 每当一从耳筒里听出她的声音时, 我就知道我们又要聊上几个小时了... 但那种感觉真的真的很棒!!!! 突然间, 此刻的我很想她了... 我要向她倾诉我的心事....我要知道她过得好不好.....霓, 你正在看吗?!

四周的朋友, 一个接着一个地到异国去深造...剩下来的只有那小猫两三只了... 你也会有到异国深造的那一天吗?! 我呢?! 我也会有离开的那一天吗?! ^?^

15 February 2007


朋友有如一把扇


为自己而活 而不是为别人而活
前天的深夜, 我接到了一位老友的来电... 他是一个夜猫子, 他每一次的来电总是在深夜... 也许深夜是人们最多心事, 最佳倾诉心事的时刻... 所以深夜的他特别多心事... 我不知道为何我会成为了他倾诉的对象, 也许他相信我或许... 或许在深夜里, 他朋友里只有我是还没睡的吧... 老实说, 我并不喜欢成为倾诉心事的对象, 尤其是分享感情的心事... 无可奈何, 即使不喜欢, 我还是无法拒绝... 因为我知道只有把心事说出来才能让心情变得更好... 所以我还是老样子的听着他说着他和她的故事直到凌晨时分...

经过了数小时的谈话后... 我发现我又上了一堂课... 他说着他是多么地想念已经分手的女友; 他是如何地熬过分手后的日子; 他是多么地想重新回到过去; 他是如何在感情中跌了一次又一次...等等.他问, "为何会因为真心相爱, 所以真心伤害?"; "你会让自己痛苦还是让喜欢的人痛苦?"; "为何她最终选择的是他而不是我?"; "我该怎么做才能让她回心转意?"; "我该祝福她与他吗?"; "为何我的心那么痛?"......等等伤心的问题. 这一次, 我真的真的感受到了他的心疼, 心酸及心痛... 在那样的深夜, 电话听筒里只有我和他... 他哭了... 听着另一边的哭声, 我心寒了... 我不知该向他说些什么... 那一刻, 我真正体会到了他对她的爱... 同时, 他也让我知道了什么是... 虽然说男子汉大丈夫, 流血不流泪... 但再坚强的人都会有软弱的那一刻, 毕竟人不是万能的... 只要有适当的心情, 适当的场合, 适当的时间, 一个人就能展露出他真正的那一面... 那一刻, 我也了解到了他是如何地掩饰自己的感情让自己坚强...

接近情人节的这个夜晚, 我知道他怀念着以往的情人节... 听着他的故事, 不知不觉中又让我想起了许多感情事... 男女间的感情, 除了友情就是爱情... 难道说男女间只能有爱情不能有友情吗? 相爱分手后就不能做会朋友吗?! 朋友变情人再变朋友真的是能吗? 这些为何会让人掉尽无数的泪水?! 为何人能为了它而疯狂, 为了它而断送生命, 为了它而死去活来, 为了它而把自己弄得不像自己.... 爱情啊爱情,你的魔力真强啊!!!

说到这, 又让我想起了一个最近环绕在我周围的话题"等待与被等待"... 你曾被等待或等待某个人吗?! 等待与被等待的滋味你都尝过吗?! 你会为一个不喜欢你的人而等待吗?! 等待一个人的同时, 你也能确保对方也为你而被等待吗? 等待或被等待就像是个没有计时的炸弹吧... 你不知何时才不需要在等待或被等待, 你也不知后来的你会得到什么结果... 也许你能等到你所想要得到的, 最终你也可能一无所有... 难道只有痴情地等待才能证明你对他的爱吗?! 我并不觉得如此... 其实, 放手并不一定是件坏事... 也许把手放了, 你会得到更多....


我想说的是... 在这世上, 除了你自己没有谁是可以永远陪着谁走到最后... 人生车站里, 有些人与你一起从起点出发; 车停了, 有人上车也有人下车; 每个人都有着自己该下车的车站; 有些人是在起点与你走到半途, 有些人是在半途与你走到终点, 也有些人跟你只是擦肩而过扮演着生命中的过客... 除了自己, 又有谁可以陪着谁从起点走到终点呢?! 别问永远有多, 永远也许就是生命结束的那一刻吧...除了你自己, 没有谁是可以陪着谁走到最后.....

有些缘分是无法任由你操纵, 要失去的最终都会失去; 当你拥有时, 别忘了真心对待及珍惜彼此; 别等到失去了才懂得珍惜... 有时候, 事实总是残酷的... 也许如何面对它及接受它就是上天所赐的考验吧...

朋友, 愿你的伤口能尽快痊愈... 除了爱情, 人生中还有更多美好的事情是等着你去开拓的... 把伤心的都抛在脑后吧, 勇敢地向前看吧... 让自己开心点, 学着去放手, 总有一天你会看得开的... 有时候拥有未必是最棒的, 把那份爱掩埋在心中或许会更好吧... 祝福你, 一定要好起来!!! :)



nothing is perfect...nothing is forever...

13 February 2007

yeah...the toughest anatomy test was finally ended yesterday and today is the last day of my class and begins the break of Chinese New Year.... all of us were so relaxed yesterday after the anatomy test...Yayay....the pressure and nervousness was really gone after the test... however, another two papers are coming after the break....sigh...T_T...I cant imagine how can i concentrate and prepare for the papers during CNY...it is... it's bit tough to get back the study mood after CNY mood.... haiiii ^^ hope i can handle it...

yaya... quite happy today as i really enjoyed the outing just now....:)

06 February 2007

[自由了]

曾经在一起的两个人
因为距离而分开了
彼此间害怕等待或被等待
所以他俩的恋情也因此划下了句点

一段时间后
男生提出了复合
但女生却无法成全
因为她已情不自禁恋上了另一个人

是女生太过于花心了吗?
女生有错吗?

对女生而言
除了抱歉 还是抱歉
因为她已无言以对

最终
男生回国度假了
这一次 他告诉了女生一件事
男生已有女友了

女生知道后 给了个微笑 并祝福有情人终成眷属
因为曾经的一起 曾经度过的时光
所以女生心中也难免会有点酸
但...酸得来又带点甜...

此刻
女生心中似乎完全释放了
因为谁也没有为谁而等待
而她也不曾因自己的决定而后悔

你觉得这女生会不会太没人情了呢?
她是不是很不应该呢?