younger bro is going to stay at the hostel from tomorrow onwards... He's packing his stuff right now and i think he's kinda sad to leave the sweet sweet home... he's gonna to adapt himself in the new college life and oso the life of staying in the hostel..... thinking back of few years ago, I cried on the day when my lovely friends sent me to the hostel too... so i can understand the feeling of my bro right now.... he's a guy who depends much on family and this is the 1st time he gonna to stay outside with a new environment... actually, i do cared and worried about him.... at home, he seems to be a child who rely everything on others and everytime I was the one who helped him when he requested anything...( I'm not trying to say how good am I.... but it's a must for a sister to do so )
Just now when I walked to downstairs, I observed the eyes of my brother... I know he cried... he has been asking me many times about the course he gonna to take...but...i couldn't gave him any answer... I was so sorry about tat.... once he decided the course he wanted, he questioned me about the life of college and hostel....and I told him my story and my experience...
I don't know what might happend on him with the new college life and oso the hostel life... he might not adapt it so soon but he might get to love the hostel life too....no one knows....but i think it's oso a chance for him learn to be independent and grow...anyway, wishing him all the best in the new journey and hope that he can adapt himself easily in the new environment and doing well in everything without others help...
sam, gambateh and don't be so upset la... weekday will pass very fast and u can come back during the weekend too... jia you lo...
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SM here..
I also hv this kind of experience.. It happen when my sister went to NS,, She always keeping asking me bout how the NS.. she also ask me bout wat course she should take..She always said wan find the college nearby..Haha..Anyway, this the time they to learn indepedent n outside life..
yayay.. i think so... once one is stay outside, he/she got the chance to learn more and learn to b independent...but stay outside, it's oso a chance to turn a person from good to bad... just lik me, I hate the past hostel life as it's just like a nightmare for me...... i hate the turning point tat happenend on me and regret to be so bad..... anyway, is all over and I had learnt to love myself....
kelian,, u must be gone through a very tough life in that hostel... for u to change urself isnt easy but as environment changes everything, u hav no choice... important now is u realise something... everyone changed through time... no matter bad or good time... dont worry... im sure ur brother will not become a bad person when he go through... trust him...
yaya..... i trust him too and hope he's getting better with the new life... :P
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